You’re so right — men never get saggy and never experience erectile dysfunction (might want to tell that to the Viagra makers) and just don’t age! And you’re right — only women should be expected to caretake an aging, sickly hubs. It’s “natural.”

Except many women just won’t put up with that. Sad but true.

It would take an exceptional man — read, very wealthy — to make this work. Otherwise, we gals will just leave…

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