Vicki Larson
1 min readMar 28, 2021

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Your google search also includes this study and this study and this study. I could go on and on. No “feigning” even necessary! I

f you prefer thin women, own it. I’m not attracted to obese men, but that’s me; I own it. A few extra pounds? Not a problem because what makes someone attractive is the whole person — brain and body.

My beautiful, sexy friend is married to an obese man, her second marriage and he was big when they met, and is very happy. He’s attractive to her.

No matter what “societal opinion” says, there are individual variations that will always defy what others do. It always comes down to personal preferences, so do not presume there’s one “right” or “wrong” kind of attractiveness.

Also many of those studies have been conducted by hetero men with a hetero male bias. That actually matters. Lesbian women are much more accepting of bigger bodies, on others and themselves. They do not buy into hetero “societal opinions.”

Stay safe.

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Vicki Larson
Vicki Larson

Written by Vicki Larson

Award-winning journalist, author of “Not Too Old For That" & "LATitude: How You Can Make a Live Apart Together Relationship Work, coauthor of “The New I Do,”

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