yeah, people who want kids often want to get married, and that includes men and women. Many marry for religious reasons and can't have sex outside of marriage. Marriage provides more than 1,100 perks and privileges, and that's just on the federal side. And conservatives keep pushing marriage on people as part of the "success sequence." There's a lot of pressure to put a ring on it, from family, society, religion, etc. Historically and even today, marriage benefits men more than women. And there are many women in sexless marriages, too, even if the man isn't impotent.