Thanks for reading and writing. Total double standard, agreed. You are right — many of us will not look that good, even with great genetics. Still, some may. Do you think it's impossible for a 50-year-old woman to look like J.Lo without "work"? Is using the services of nutritionists, skin care professionals, personal trainers, etc. the same as going through a cosmetic procedure? Following good nutrition, caring for our skin and working out on our own or with free YouTube videos seems accessible to many people if they have the time, ability and inclination. Cosmetic surgery, injectables, etc. — not so much. As you say, who cares? And yet, people seem to