Thanks for reading and responding. Hey, I care about how I look and I try to do all the right things — sunscreen, moisturize, facials every now and then, exercise, fuss with my hair. I am a tad vain! I think we feel better in our own skin when we feel like we look our best. But our best, not the impossible, punishing and narrow standards society wants to squeeze us in. Feeling confident and comfortable with who we are is the most attractive thing we can do for ourselves.