Renata, you and I are of like minds, as I have written similarly (https://medium.com/athena-talks/what-do-women-want-14ddc8623418)

The only way women will get what the want from hetero marriage is a marital contract and time-limited renewable marriages, which I write about in my book, The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels. The institution needs to catch up to who we are and how we live today.