I'm not. That said, can you point to any studies how easy it is for ALL older men? It's true some older men prefer younger women (study: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/283454064_The_Gendered_Dynamics_of_Age_Preferences_-_Empirical_Evidence_from_Online_Dating) but actually find one to marry who'll be happy being a housewife if he's not a top-quality man? Study says, nope: https://thesocietypages.org/feminist/2016/12/07/on-straight-mens-marriageability-across-the-class-divide/