First, I was quoting someone (I did not say that) and for all I know, she may see loads of it.
I will also point out there are quite a few models of older women/younger men, from Emmanuel Macron to Hugh Jackman to Aaron Taylor-Johnson. And MakeLoveNotPorn founder Cindy Gallop only dates younger men.
So, maybe it’s not your thing, and that’s fine. But other men and women are clearly much more broad-minded than that. Why should that bother anyone?